Have you ever thought of what means to be a woman? What is the concept of being a woman? No, I’m not talking about nasty pains through your monthly cycle, mood swings, overwhelming emotions, and you don’t know where they’re coming from or why, and more. I’m talking about the sacred meaning of being a woman.

Nowadays, we are paying so much attention to equality: being top in terms of career and wealth, and when we, women, are alone, we feel drained, emptied, vanished, lost — and I can go with those adjectives forever, but I’m sure you get what I’m saying. Why do you think that happens? We have forgotten our nature. We stopped listening to ourselves, we stopped trusting our intuition. No one teaches us about these anymore. Our mothers have forgotten or never known. Our friends are blind on that topic either. So how would we know if there is no one out there to educate us?

I can tell you more. Only a few people really talk about it and understand the essence of it. Every time I start a conversation about what means to be a woman, with a woman or with a man who understands the truth with all their hearts, both sexes get excited and I hear “yes, yes, yes” right away. So let’s see what it really means:

Being a woman means accepting your body and all the changes that it goes through a month. It means accepting all emotions not dumping them on your boyfriend’s head but controlling them. Being a woman also means protecting a home, and that leads us to another conclusion: the best place for a woman is at home.

Let me give you several examples: forty or fifty years ago, most women stayed at home with their families. They cooked, they took care of husbands who provided for them, they delivered babies. If you recall, these families usually had 3-6 kids. Those families grew up having family celebrations, kids usually have a great deal of respect for their parents throughout their lives, and they still get together on every possible — and on impossible — occasions. Those families are rock solid even today. Look around, I’m sure you have friends like that. But what do we have now? Propaganda targeted at women is pushing them towards work, career, but no families. Women today forget about kids until it’s too late.

Equality reminds women to be independent, fight for your future etc. But is that really what we women want?

Is this our real nature? No! Because of that, women find themselves alone, miserable, childless or having huge problems like getting pregnant out of wedlock, and without any satisfaction from money or work where they sold their soul to.

Another example: during a war, our great grandmothers were staying at home, helping with medical help at home, making sure husbands knew that they were waited for. Women sewed while thinking of their man, they knit while thinking of their loved ones and that excusably created great omens for those who left for war. Men were wearing their clothes made by wives, which carried a certain timeless magic spell that would ensure that they’d come home safe! Have you thought of that? I bet you haven’t! Many of us don’t even know about that.

So it all leads us to really ponder about all of those things. Start rethinking our female role in society. Start rebuilding our strength, and being happier as women, and obtaining the same magic that our great grandmothers had again. We need to use it in our daily lives and recognize who we truly are. How powerful can we be if we don’t get frightened to start relearning our old ways that track back to the essence of our being, and recognize the importance of just being … a woman.